The Only Advice Ever is  Self-Responsibility

"There is Nothing and No-One to Change but Self." Neville Goddard

Everyone has an idea about someone else. And it all stems from one thing: not willing to look at oneself. It is placing causation outside of Self and it does one thing and one thing only: It makes you Powerless. 

When you are looking for reasons you will find reasons. Not because they are true. But because you are looking for it.
Seek and Ye shall find. And what's more, the reason will be true. Not because it is inherently true, but because the version of you that was looking for that answer is a match to that answer because they are vibrating at "woe is me."

Everything is true. Not inherently. But because life works this way: Believing is Seeing. So whatever you believe, you will find proof for.

So if you Believe there is something wrong with your guy or girl, that they're evasive and they don't care about you, you are right. Which hurts doesn't it. 

The good thing is that the opposite is also true. When you say that they love you and only you, it is just as true. All assumptions harden into fact. There is no assumption police.

Since reality is inherently meaningless, and we are designed to give it meaning, the meaning that you give it tells you about you.

If you're working with someone, and they give you reasons about the other, find a different coach. A good coach teaches You how to conduct self inquiry.

They give you a frame and keep pressing you to hold on to that frame, no matter what is going on. They guide you to chambers within yourself that you have never opened or not opened long enough to find what is inside. 

Most helpers are in the business of healing symptoms. If you don't treat the root and the soil, the plant will not survive. No matter how expensive the treatment is that you buy, 

The STATE is what creates. 

If you're looking to work with someone who knows because they're living these teachings, then hit me up.
heyhey@victoria-moniquefitness.nl

A Fit Mind, Creates a Beautiful Body and an Epic Life

Much Love.

Victoria-Monique